The turning point
It looked like success. It didn't feel like it.
Two years ago, I was often still working at 2 in the morning. Chasing money, making sure everyone got paid, looking after my staff, my family and my children. I'd never have imagined that I, of all people, would be working like that. And every holiday was hell.
People who know me know I built a successful firm. They know I work stupid hours, too. What most of them didn't see was what those hours were costing.
For years I worked 60 to 70 hours a week, every week, trying to grow the business and win more clients. Fear drove it: the fear of not getting work. I was in lots of networking groups and did all the usual things. I thought the only answer was to work harder.
What it cost at home
Every holiday was the same. I'd be up before everyone else, checking emails and dealing with work before the day had even started. At home, I'd rush the children to bed so I could get back to work for the evening.
The stress showed. I was constantly snapping at the children. Then I'd lie awake asking myself why I'd snapped at my wife, my parents and the people I love most, when none of it was their fault.
I decided I had to change
The responsibilities of running a busy law firm, the financial pressure and everything else took their toll. And working harder clearly wasn't the answer: I'd tried it for years.
So I stopped, stepped back and spent months working out how to get out of the situation I was in. What I found was a system: see where the time goes, put the repeat work on systems, and spend the hours you win back on the business.
It has helped me grow the firm to four to five times the size it was when I started.
Two years on, I can hardly believe I worked the way I did. The system isn't a piece of software, and it isn't a legal method. Its principles apply to any business, which is why I now help other owners use them. See the system, step by step.